the harm of premarital sex to girls
premarital sex causes both men and women to achieve certain satisfaction in sexual desire and other aspects, but people do not know how to be confused in love, and extreme happiness leads to sorrow, and disaster comes from joy. judging from the survey results of unmarried abortions in some regions across the country in recent years, there is no doubt about the adverse consequences of premarital sex on the parties involved, especially directly on the woman.
1.bringing great psychological pressure to the woman
sometimes the woman takes the initiative to make sexual intercourse before marriage, but more often the man asks the woman to cater to or cannot resist it, but the psychological state before and after the event is very different. the psychological pressure it causes to the woman, such as fear, inferiority, conflict, etc., comes one after another. the survey found that 27.3% of people are afraid of getting pregnant after sexual intercourse, 21.3% are very regretful, and 21% are afraid of corrupting reputation. when undergoing an abortion, 48.4% of people were afraid of the pain of the surgery, 17.3% of parents were afraid of telling them, 13% of people were afraid of sequelae after the surgery, 62.3% of people were afraid of finding a partner after the surgery, 20.7% of people were afraid of finding another partner after the breakup, and 17% of people were not concerned.
2.severe impact on the woman's health
the remedy for conception without wanting to have children is artificial abortion. for premarital sex actors, there are three adverse consequences of abortion: one is that they cannot restore their health normally. in order not to let others know, some young women go to work and study immediately after the operation, which seriously affects the recovery of their health and even causes major bleeding; secondly, they are prone to damage their reproductive organs and cause accidents. some young people dare not go to the hospital for abortion and look for those doctors. they perform surgery under extremely unscientific conditions, causing great damage to the genitals, some even sacrifice their lives, and some are humiliated by bad-quality doctors, and their bodies and minds are destroyed; thirdly, it causes many complications.
medical research and clinical data show that abortion can cause: low menstrual flow, amenorrhea, sexual frigidity, infertility, and re-pregnancy can easily lead to miscarriage, endometriosis, genital inflammation, placenta previa, placenta adhesion implantation, uterine perforation, major postpartum bleeding, and even cervical cancer.
3.make a romantic relationship unfavorable to the woman's development trend
when premarital sex occurs, the relationship between the two parties in love is equal and free to choose each other, but the situation will be different after it occurs: first, the attractiveness of both parties gradually weakens compared to the past. i thought the relationship between the two sides was mysterious, but now it has become "but that". the glory and charm of the past were not dazzling and full of strength; second, the woman's chances of choosing less. it turned out that the man was very accommodating to the woman. since the woman committed herself to him, she thought that "she can no longer live without me" and "i will belong to me", so she began to be casual and dominate the woman.
on the contrary, the woman had given him the chastity and was "here he was his man", but she was worried that the man would change his original intention and was afraid of being abandoned. so she repeatedly accommodated and tolerated the man. even though she found that he had major shortcomings, she had to get married, which delayed her lifelong affairs. the survey shows that 10.7% of the women want to take revenge on the man after sex, and 21.3% of the women regret but cannot get rid of the man. this is the reason. third, the man’s suspicion about the woman begins to arise. engels once said: "sex is exclusive." women are like this, and men are no exception. men always hope that their girlfriend only trusts themselves and is open to them. once they have sex with them, they begin to suspect the woman again, "is she the same with others?" if the woman has talked to several partners in the past, this suspicion will increase, which may lead to abortion of the relationship or a discord after marriage.
4.clouds of weddings
a newlywed is one of the happiest events in life, but if you have sex before marriage or the bride is pregnant, such a newlywed will lose the joy it deserves and cast a cloud of darkness. as for newlyweds, two words are no longer fresh, but they are just a formality; people around them will also talk and look down on them, thinking that they are "depressed". although some things in traditional concepts are more harsh, it is not easy to reverse the "national conditions" and abandon traditional culture at once.
5.causing many unpleasant life after marriage
premarital sex is often carried out in a state of "crime" that is worried and afraid of others' discovery. without a good living environment, both parties will not only find it difficult to experience sexual pleasure from it. instead, it leaves painful sexual experience, which can easily cause sexual dysfunction in one of the couples, such as sexual indifference and impotence, resulting in a difficult and harmonious sexual life for couples. there is no legal guarantee for premarital sex. if the woman suffers from the mute and suffers from the pain of being abandoned, she will hold a grudge against the man. after marriage, if the husband complains about this, he will ask the "unfaithful man" to seek justice, causing disputes, illegal accidents, and even causing trouble, leading to family misfortune.
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